Thursday, January 23, 2014 10:00 PM♥

Sunny Day :)

Its time to update my blog again :)
Makes me feel like updating so im here to update again.
And today i found 5 interesting post about Women / Relationship
But have to let me update what i wanna update first and share those post over here :)

Seriously i hate my fever alot -.-
Jus dont know what to say.
I have to take care of myself alot ._.
Had a wired dream this time.
Jus dont know how to say about this dream.
But then let it be.
Fully wake in the noon time.
Watch tv, do my stuff and more.
And my lazy-ness for today was, lazy to play games. LOL :x
But then i still online my mstar, jus to get my plants done.
Aft that " Log Off " and watch tv .
Actully, i think alot alot.
But then i still tell myself, stop anyhow think.
Found some post frm web.
And i found its meaningful. Will be sharing over here too.
Its will be a long long post for today :)
Tml working morning shift have to rest early too.
Mayb aft work will be doing nails if they not full hse yet :x

I found this 2 post frm facebook.
Guys, you can read it and understand your girls more :)

不會做男朋友的請看

一。每天睡覺之前一定要給她打一個電話，不管你有多晚，因為她一直在等你，只是她嘴上說不管。
　　
　　二。就算你再忙，你也不能一連好幾天不給她短信或電話，或者對她忽冷忽熱，因為這樣會讓她很恐慌，是不是自己又做錯了什麼。任何時候不要讓她找不到你，因為這樣她會一直很不安心。
　　
　　三。就算她跟你無理取鬧你也要原諒她，因為她那是在測試你在乎她的程度。因為她那是缺乏安全感
　　
　　四。你要經常去她的個人主頁，即使什麼也不留下，但是她看到你來過的記錄也會很開心。
　　
　　五。你問她想不想你時，如果她說不想，你一定要很開心，因為她的不想就是想。
　　
　　六。和她發短信時，字數一定要比她的多，這樣她會覺得你是在乎她的。
　　
　　七。對她對你已經說過一萬遍的關心，不要不耐煩的說知道了知道了，要很感動的說謝謝，因為那真的都是她出自內心的關心。
　　
　　八。當她關心你時，不要說出：原來你也會關心我這樣的話。這樣會很傷她心，因為這對於她來說是一種很大的否定。
　　
　　九。當你和她打電話時，你一定要她先掛你的電話，即使她說了一百遍要你先掛。
　　
　　十。千萬要記得她都是害羞的，不要什麼都讓她主動。
　　
　　十一。即使最後你們還是不能走到一起，記得，一定要跟她說清楚，因為她都是專情的，不要讓她再等你。
　　
　　十二。分手後，千萬不要再對她說出以後還是朋友這樣的話，因為這樣她會覺得自己很悲哀。
　　
　　男朋友就是每天不厭其煩的陪你吃飯、送送你上下班的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是雖然身上沒什麼錢，也會請你吃飯的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是早晨你醒來時第一個想到的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是能跟你打電話聊到半夜都捨不得掛的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是在你最艱難的時候陪伴在你身邊的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是為了不讓你擔心，無論出了什麼事都要自己默默承擔的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是手機裡總是存滿你給他發的短信，直到信箱滿了都捨不得刪掉的那個人;
　　
　　男朋友就是無論你是不是漂亮都會誇讚你漂亮的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是在你任性、耍小脾氣時，也會忍住脾氣不會沖你發火的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是看到你流淚時，為你擦去淚水給你一個溫暖擁抱的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是就算你犯了錯誤，也捨不得罵你的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是可以在車站等你很久也不會介意的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是明明最不喜歡逛街，還能陪你一家一家的逛到你覺得滿意為止的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是有著寬厚的肩膀可以讓你隨時依靠的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是吃飯時放慢速度等你的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是總是讓你走在馬路內側的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是過馬路時會緊緊拉住你的手的人；
　　
　　男朋友就是就算情人節也不會買花給你，讓你對他又愛又氣的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是深夜為你開著手機的那個人；
　　
　　男朋友就是當你讀到這篇文章時立刻會想到的那個人；
　　
　　女生一定要轉載到自己空間，給自己的男朋友看看。

And this is the 2nd post which both guys and girls can read it :)

一个爱你的人,不会把分手挂在嘴边
一个爱你的人,不会让你常常掉眼泪
一个爱你的人,不会有时对你好有时坏
一个爱你的人,不会让你伤心难过

真正爱你的人,会细心呵护你
真正爱你的人,想尽办法逗你
真正爱你的人,时时刻刻想你
真正爱你的人,会在身边保护你
真正爱你的人,不希望你不快乐

And, im gonna post 1 meaning articles first .
Other 4 articles, i will post when i update my blog :)
Enjoy readding :D

20 Qualities The Person You’re Going To Marry Should Have

While we may not know who exactly we are going to marry, as fully developed, young adults, we have a pretty good idea of the qualities we’re looking for in a partner.

This isn’t a little girl’s “Prince Charming” wish list. Think of this, instead, as the list Rihanna’s friends gave to her after she broke up with Chris Brown… for the second time.

Despite this suspicious feeling that writing this list will guarantee my future as a spinster, here are the 20 qualities you should look for in the person you marry:

1. Shares your beliefs

Regardless if you believe in Satan or sprinkles, your partner should have respect for your views. Believing in the same things — like Beyoncé as a religion, or coffee as a morning non-negotiable — brings you two closer.

2. Teaches you something new

Life together will be pretty boring if you can’t learn from each other. It can be a lesson as small as how to bake chocolate chip cookies with Oreos stuffed in the middle (this has actually turned out to be an important life skill), or something more substantial, like how to use chopsticks properly. For me, this means he’s well-versed in politics and will give me the Sparknotes version of White House current events. Let’s also not forget there’s an inherent good feeling when you teach someone a new fact or skill.

3. Trusts you (and is trustworthy him or herself)

If you feel the need to raid your partner’s cell phone, you’re basically displaying your distrust for him or her — what good is a relationship like that? Once you start prying into each other’s phones, all faith goes out the window and every text is grounds for an argument.

Bottom line: If you go digging for sh*t, you’re gonna smell it.

4. Appreciates staying in together

Every couple needs quality time — just make sure your definition of “quality time” is the same as your partner’s. Going out and socializing as a duo is always fun, but it’s equally important that your partner can curl up next to you for an intimate night in. Sometimes, the most magical moments are the ones we take the time to slow down and enjoy with the person who’s right in front of us. No audience necessary.

5. Makes you a better person

You want someone who brings out your best self. A great way tell if you and your partner should tie the knot is by honestly asking yourself, “Does this person make me better?”

6. Entertains inside jokes

No, I’m not talking about how you both love to crack up while watching the “Afternoon Delight” scene in “Anchorman.” I’m talking about the kind of inside joke, where all you have to do is give the other person a certain look and it instantly sends you both into a laughing fit. You are both so on the same page that the joke doesn’t need to be explained; your partner just gets it.

7. Does not place restrictions on you or the relationship

The person you marry shouldn’t give you ultimatums like, “I won’t date you until you get a promotion,” or “If you go out with your friends, I’ll break up with you.” There shouldn’t be rules to your relationship that prohibit you from doing certain things or hold you back from being who you are.

He can’t prevent you from wearing your crop top to the bar (although, it is very flattering when he gets jealous like that). Likewise, she can’t stop you from playing video games before bed (that is, unless she’s not wearing any clothes…).

8. Compromises

Compromise is the key to any successful relationship; we’ve been taught this since kindergarten. Do I love going to Phish concerts and listening to 20-minute guitar riffs? No, but I’ll make it my mission to enjoy myself and do it anyway (for the drugs, mostly). And I’m sure he doesn’t like being dragged to see weird indie films, but I’ll buy the popcorn and soda and toss in a Xanax because I’m nice like that.

9. Respects your family

Notice how I don’t use the word “likes” here; although, that’s always a plus. This also goes for both sets of friends.

10. Satisfies in bed

If you can’t please your partner in bed, chances are, he or she is gonna look for that satisfaction elsewhere. Being satisfied in the sack goes beyond pleasure; it means you two are also sexually comfortable with one another. When it comes to matters in the bedroom, you and your partner should keep an open dialogue.

11. Maintains a healthy relationship with alcohol and socializing

If your partner can’t handle drinking or social situations, then you’ll either: A) Have to accept the role of the occasional babysitter, or B) Pass on it altogether. (Shout out to my future hubby!) Drinking Jameson and crying at the bar afterwards is kind of a deal-breaker — same with getting violent, Chris Brown.

12. Loves your flaws

True confession: I love not wearing pants. If you don’t love that about me, then we probably aren’t meant to be together. The person you marry should, of course, play up your strengths, but also appreciate your imperfections. It might sound trite, but it’s your quirks that make you… You.

13. Gives you well-deserved compliments

So sue us for wanting the person we love to tell us we’re beautiful and perfect and incredible and smart and the best person on the planet?

Seriously, though, you don’t need to shower us in flattery, but when we’ve spent all day researching the perfect lingerie, hearing that we look “sexier than Rihanna in her ‘Pour It Up’ video,” is always well-received.

(Yes, patrons in the comments section, these are my daddy issues talking — you’ve totally figured me out.)

14. Shares the same values

Someone who is materialistic and enjoys splurging on extravagances probably won’t last very long with someone who is down-to-earth and likes to rough it. This is why celebrities marry other celebrities***.

(***The reason they don’t last very long, though, is completely unrelated to this list.)

15. Stays faithful

This seems fairly obvious; although, you’d be surprised at how many people are more and more accepting of the fact that their spouses will cheat at least once in their relationship.

I am not one of those people. Don’t f*cking cheat on me, or I’ll break up with you… And then cut off your balls because I assume you have none in order to do that to a person. (Smiles.)

16. Displays intelligence

Smart people don’t suck. They also offer insightful advice and help you make good choices. Your spouse doesn’t have to be a college graduate. We’re referring to the kind of partner who innately possesses that brand of sage intelligence.

17. Appeases your attraction (whatever that means to you)

Because you’re going to be spending the better part of your life with this person, it’s mildly crucial that you also feel connected to him or her. I happen to be fond of older, hairy men. And I’m pretty sure that sounds attractive to no one but myself.

18. Partakes in various hobbies

They don’t have to be the same hobbies as yours (see #8 ‘Compromises’), so long as your partner has other ways of fulfilling him or herself, aside from banging you and then cuddling on repeat. Whether that means frequenting museums or watching viral videos, your partner should have other interests outside of your relationship.

Bonus points if by “hobby,” you also mean “grubbing.”

19. Shares in your vision for the future

Hopefully you’re both in it.

20. Delivers unconditional love

Unconditional love is kind of like the Olive Garden: When you’re there, you’re family.

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